Have you ever became more attracted to a person after you broke up with them? Well, I have. I broke up with my girl friend and we still hung out as usual like nothing ever happened, but she didn’t want to do anything physical anymore. The fact that she had guards up and wanted to have sex but made me work for it, made me more attracted to her than I ever was when I was with her.
She doesn’t want to get hurt and that’s why she doesn’t want to have sex, even though she does want to have sex, but she doesn’t want to open up; women have emotional connections when it comes to sex. Men do to, but not nearly as much. I want to have a friends with benefits type thing, but she wants more than that understandably.
My problem is is that she has had experience, whereas I have not. I would like to see what else is out there, to have a means of comparison. When I broke up with her, I didn’t have girl in mind to replace her. A lot of times when a person says “let’s see other people,” they have some one in mind or they are already seeing that person. I had no other person in mind. I’m thinking maybe I should get back with my girlfriend, but I don’t want to hurt her again. This was the third time I broke up with her, she’s broken up with me too, but still, maybe I should just move on. What do you think?
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